The English language is full of words that have multiple connotations. Occasionally, I will ask someone if they have received any bodywork lately and their reply will be: “No, my car is running fine.”
It is a bit funny if you think about it, the analogy of working with a 1991 Honda Civic and a 1968 Human Being. The comparisons are vast. However, there is obviously a world of difference.
I often overhear therapists talking about working on this client or working on that client, with descriptions that sound a lot like a mechanic working on an automobile. This paradigm often involves locating the problem and then “fixing” it.
I have no doubt that there are automobile mechanics in the world that work with the “soul” of the cars that they service. In the end, despite all the metaphors, a car is not a living organism. In his book, The Anatomy of Change, author Richard Heckler describes three ways to work with the body: working on the body, working with the body, and working through the body. Take a moment to reflect on these different approaches. Which one would best describe your approach to massage and bodywork?
Here is my invitation. Try replacing the phrase “I worked on a client today…” with “I worked with a client today…” and notice the difference, if any, for you as a therapist.
Words are powerful. Choose them wisely.
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